A+B=C
By Jason Glaze
As human beings there is a part of us that loves formulas. Formulas give us answers which eliminates confusion and causes us to feel like we are in control. Formulas are reliable which makes us feel safe. When we are faced with a confusing struggle we go looking for a formula to bring us some relief to the situation.
Formulas within themselves are not bad, but the problems come when we try to use formulas in an attempt to control God. We learn at an early age that A+B=C, so when we are learning how to pray our mind goes into formula mode. A (Go to God in Prayer) + B (Ask God a question) = C (God gives us an answer). While this may be actually what happens from time to time, we can easily begin to rely on the formula and when the formula for prayer doesn’t work we think something must be wrong with us.
As I read the gospels, one thing that really stands out to me about Jesus is He is constantly asking questions. And He often would answer a question with a question. So if He asked people questions back then, why would we think He would be different today?
Is it possible that we have so programmed ourselves to listen for answers from God that we are missing the questions that he may be asking us? The great thing about a question is questions create dialog. When God asks us a question we have the choice to enter into the conversation with God or ignore the question and go on about our day. Questions create dialog and dialog deepens relationships.
So let’s begin to open ourselves up to the questions that God may be asking us. Let’s retire the formulas that we have relying on trying to control our relationship with God. Control and intimacy don’t mix, you can’t have both. I choose intimacy, how about you?
Jason Glaze
I’m with you, I want intimacy! I’m ready to retire the formulas…Great blog Jason. Needed to hear that this morning, thanks.
this is so timely for us. This week, our small group has been discussing why it is difficult to hear God’s answers to our questions. We never mentioned the fact that He may asking us questions. Thanks J
Thanks for these comments!